From Pressure to Purpose — Surrendering the Need to Control the Plan
- Sonya Cole
- Nov 12
- 2 min read
Sometimes what feels like delay is actually divine direction.
When Control Becomes a Confidence Trap
Let’s be real — we love control because it feels like safety. We build plans, set goals, create strategies, and convince ourselves that if we work hard enough, everything will align just right.
But the truth? Control can be the most polished form of fear. When we grip too tightly, we leave no room for God to redirect, refine, or even expand what we thought we wanted.
EABY was built on the belief that purpose requires partnership — not perfection. That means trusting that strategy and surrender can coexist. We plan with intention, but we lead with faith.
From Pressure to Purpose: A Shift in Posture
Pressure says: “I have to make this happen.”
Purpose says: “God invited me to steward what’s happening.”
This shift doesn’t remove your responsibility — it redeems it. It frees you to operate with peace, not panic.
When you stop forcing every door open, you begin to notice which ones God already unlocked.
Try this mindset shift:
Instead of “I’m behind,” say, “I’m being prepared.”
Instead of “This isn’t happening fast enough,” say, “This is unfolding right on time.”
Instead of “Why me?” say, “God trusted me with this.
Leadership Through Surrender
In the corporate world, surrender doesn’t sound strategic, but it’s the secret sauce of confident leadership.
Leaders who surrender outcomes gain clarity. They inspire trust, empower teams, and build cultures rooted in authenticity.
At EABY, we coach leaders to combine strategy with surrender, teaching them to plan boldly and stay flexible when God edits the blueprint.
Because transformation happens when pressure bows to purpose.
Reflection Prompt
What area of your leadership or life are you gripping too tightly & what could God do with it if you let go?
Affirmation
“I am releasing control and embracing peace. My purpose unfolds in perfect timing.”
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